Category: Guidance

Are You a Clickabator?

Self-Abuse in the 21st Century Do you feel stressed out? Do you feel like there’s too much to do and too little time in which to do it? If so, you’re not alone. I’ve written in the past about our increasing need to stay connected with everything and everyone...

What Did I Just See You Do?

Accountability and Success How are those New Year’s resolutions of yours coming along? Or, did you (like me) not make any? It usually takes about two weeks (or three weeks max) for New Year’s resolutions to fall by the wayside. I’m not being Negative Nellie here, but statistically we...

Don’t Tell Me What to Do!

You Know You Should … Do you like to be told what you should or shouldn’t be doing? I don’t. People often try to be helpful by finding solutions for us. It’s not usually as helpful as they’d like to believe. I bring up “shoulding” because perhaps you’ve noticed...

“Do Something, Even If It’s Wrong!”

Living By Default Have you ever found yourself nearly paralyzed with indecision because you couldn’t figure out what to do? It’s possible to have this happen when we become so overwhelmed with possibilities, or the domino effect of a choice that we – in hindsight – realize wasn’t a...

Isn’t It About Time?

When Will You Start Living the Life You Want? How’s life? Are you having a good day? Was this past week what you wanted it to be? And, how’s next week shaping up? For far too many people, Monday through Friday is the penance they pay to have a...

So You Want Stability?

Fantastically Temporary Have you noticed how quickly attitudes, concerns, and outcomes are changing? At my “day job” in the aviation industry, nothing seems to stay the same. I’ve been involved in that line of work one way or another for over four decades and it’s always been that way....

Memorials and Monuments

Are we destroying history? Monuments and statues symbolizing the Confederacy are being removed from public view in the United States at an increasing rate. Doesn’t this deprive our citizens of the memory of people who deserve to be remembered? No. Those protesting the removal of these monuments and statues...

Strength and Empowerment Through Failure

Have you failed at anything? That’s an interesting question. If you’re like the majority of people who get asked that you’re already feeling some kind of emotional reaction. Guilt, shame, anger, disappointment and denial are just five of the most popular you’ll encounter. The denial response is often found...

When Chaos is Perfection in Motion

Do you ever feel like your life is out of control? You know, the feeling like you’re on a runaway train heading for a sharp turn? Or, feeling everyone around you is a talking head, screaming at you about what you should be doing? UGH! Been there, done that,...

Need An 18-Hour Bra?

Finding Consistent, Effective and Loving Support Remember the Jane Russell commercials for the 18-hour bra from Playtex®? I know; it’s a totally off-the-wall question for a spiritual column, right? By now you know who you’re dealing with here, so I doubt you’re shocked. My blog is called, “Making Sense...