Month: February 2021

Give It … or Lose It?

I’m thinking about love and forgiveness today. Those two get tangled up quite a bit. Clients tell me, “I just can’t forgive him. He doesn’t deserve it.” I tell them, “Perhaps not, but you do.” The longer we refuse to forgive someone the stronger those psychic ties become. Often,...

Are You Self-ish or Self-full?

I don’t think I know anyone who revels in being called selfish. I certainly don’t. Sadly, as soon as we begin to exercise our own desires, often around two or three years old, we find adults telling us we can’t have what we want. Worse yet, we may be...